How To Fix Out Of Control Money Stress

 How do you fix your financial mindset? Imean, the reality is most of us have such a poor mindset on money. We have so manynegative thoughts and limiting beliefs. And the corona virus is not helping. Infact, it's turning not just from a pandemic out there to a pandemic in here. The reality is that money is a mindset. I help people understand that most of usshare the same belief system around money. Right now, during the corona virus, mostpeople just have less money. They either can't work or their hours are restricted.Tons of people are out of work. And so, I totally get why there's so muchnegativity especially when it comes to the financial markets. A lot of people'sretirements have been wiped out through the stock market. I mean, trillions ofdollars just evaporated. But I'm telling you right now that if we lose our minds,then we're not going to be able to take advantage of the opportunity in front ofus. And I'm promising you there is an opportunity in front of you and me rightnow. You know for a living, I actually have people that come from all over theworld to meet with me so I can teach them about money. I teach them themillionaire's mindset. But I have to tell you that it is a super polarizingconversation. You put a thousand people in the room and I start talking aboutmoney. And the limiting nature of it. And people start freaking out because wehave all these ideas. "There's not enough of it. Money is bad. It's the root of allevil. It takes money to make money." We have all these limiting notions. So, oneof the things that I do during my events is I help people understand that most ofus share the same belief system around money. Sure, it's all different and unique.But most of us suffer from the same limiting beliefs like "Money is the rootof all evil. I don't have enough money. I can't afford it.I can't do it I want because of money. Money can't buy happiness. Making moneyisn't fun. Making money is too hard. It doesn't matter. There isn't enough moneyfor everyone. Debt is bad. The economy is down. My environment makes me poor. Like, Ihave catalogued all of these limiting beliefs. But for every limiting belief, Ihave captured 3 new possible beliefs. Literally this book contains (I believe) aperfect mindset for abundance and prosperity. And that's why I give thisbook away for free. And in my events, what I do is I literally have people gothrough this book and highlight all of the limiting beliefs that have beenholding me back. Same thing you can do. And then also highlight all the new beliefsthat you want about money such as "Money is a useful resource which I leverage todo good. Money creates possibility for good. I have more than enough money formy needs and wants. I create the resources for everything Ichoose. I'm free to do what I want with money."These ideas are limitless like they're expansive. These are ideas that actuallyget us thinking positively that actually allows more money to come into our life.So, I documented all of that. And this book explains how to take thisinformation and permanently program it here. I have now had thousands of peopleread this book, come through my seminars and events and do this process and comeback later and share with me how they became millionaires or multimillionaires. Shared with me how it saved their business, saved a marriage. Gottheir life back on track. Felt like they got back in control and I know this bookcan do that for you as well. Because this financial training is not out there, it'snot to be found anywhere which is a big reason for why I have this YouTubechannel in the first place. So, I'm right here my convention center. I'm about tomeet my daughter and my wife who have not seen this video in 10 years. In fact,this is a video of me putting my daughter in a bath tub of money. And Iput this up on YouTube. It was the first thing I ever uploaded to YouTube adecade ago. People were so pissed, they were so upset.I had never received so much hate in my life that my wife begged me to pleasetake the video down. And I did. But you know what? I'm going to put it back upbecause I want you to understand that even though money triggers people, itdoesn't have to and it shouldn't. So, warning. What you're about to see iscontroversial in nature but I think it's good for you. I think this is a topicthat we need to tackle especially right now because of the corona virus. Come onin. Hey, guys. So, check it out. So, I'm here with myamazing beautiful daughter, beautiful wife. And I'm going to show Liesl somethingthat we made 10 years ago when she was 4 years old that she has probably neverseen or probably can t remember. I mean, do you even remember the money bath? Wait,do you really not remember any of it? Okay. So, I've been brainwashing her thatlong. And my my wife here... Kalenn, you haven't see it for like 10 years either, right? -Yeah. 10 years. -Butyou do remember... -Because this footage allegedly was lost. We didn't know where it was. -The moment thiswent up on YouTube though, the hate went through the roof. Because money is such atriggering conversation. When you don't have enough of it, when you experiencethe lack of it, I mean I remember what it was like in the beginning when we hadall this debt. We had no money, we couldn't pay enough to pay our bills.Like, money was such a triggering conversation. And our minds are filledwith all these limiting beliefs. So, 10 years ago, I decided, "Hey, my daughter's4 years old". At that point, I was financially independent and I wanted toteach her a different way about money. And I chose to do in a way thatapparently upset some people. But my daughter had a good time.Check it out. I'm going tO actually throw it in after you're in the water.We took this money out of the vault and you are adorable. You are a cutie pie.Look at you. So, at first I got you just playing in the water.I got you feeling good and then watch what we're doing here. And like you're a kid. Like you're soblissful. You don't know any different. -I want to create this positive likeassociation with money that so many people call it bad. And the reality isit's neutral. Okay. [Laughs] Then we got tattoos. This is what we callresponsible parenting. You know, there's a lot of parents that teach their kidsthat money isn't good because they don't believe it is. Okay.So, this is what we call reprogramming children to think positive thoughtsabout money. Can you tell what's on my mind? I'm guessing a $5 bill. It's not aBenjamin because we're playing with kids for heaven's sakes. This isn't... Benjamin'sare for grown-ups, come on. So, you ready? Say,"Money is good." -Money is good. -I like money. -I like money. -With money I can do good things.Now, we got to grow the money. Can you water it? More is better. More water. Morewater. This is what's called money laundering. Okay, it's just money.It likes to play, too. Don't you like to get the swimming pool, don't you like to get... don't you like to play? You don't play with your money, dude? That's why youdon't grow it. -You're so cute. -Totally adorable. Hey, for real, though.Let me ask you. What are your personal thoughts and beliefs about money? You're14-years old, Society definitely has tried to download thoughts and ideas ofmoney into your head. What are your thoughts about money? Like what is it? -Money is money. -Is it useful. -Yes. -Is it good to earn? -Yes.-Do you like learning to take care of yourself? -Yes. -Then you can buy somethings that you want to buy and you don't have to ask mom and dad? -Okay. -So,Kalenn, for you like... Obviously, this parenting style is a little bitdifferent than you had growing up. What do you... What is it that you want ourchildren to learn about money and what are we teaching our children about money?-Well... So many times I've seen families where money is all scarcity. Moneyis all... There's never enough. It's too hard to make. And what we wanted toprogram our kids was I can earn money. Money is good to earn. Money is good todo good things. Money is good to take care of ourselves.It's a sufficiency thing .It's teaching our kids that they are capable and thatthey can always find a way. So, that's what I always liked. -Yeah. You know, in myevents, we can't get past day one of this multi-day event without ever talkingabout money first because most people have a mind site. There's like, there's amindset and a map of money that most people have that money is dirty, it'srotten, it's evil, it's bad, it's all these weird things. It's something that we wantmore of. And yet inside, there's this paradox. Like it's where it's polarizing.And we don't feel good about it. And so, I love teaching people really how to havea positive identity with money. A positive relationship with it. Isocialize all my children with this idea that money in itself is paper. It'sneutral and the value we assign to it is the value that we want it to be. And Iwant my children to have a good relationship with money. In fact, I wantmy children have a good relationship with most things in life. So, Liesel, I'mgoing to spring something on you. You did a money back then and guess what? We'regoing to do another money bath right now. And you have that cute blue bow in yourhair. Today, I have a cute red bow. Mommy, put the bow in. If you want to do moneybath, guess what we need? Wealth is about opportunity. More money, more options. So,the more of it I have, the better at I am making it than the more opportunities. Bythe way, how many of you want more options and opportunities in life?How many vaunt more freedom? How many of you want to buy your time back? Money isa solution there. So, the reality is this is not really a lot of money. It is toomany people. It's about $10,000. And this idea that... Thisis paper, right? I mean, we wipe our butts with paper. And yet, we also get to assignthe value that we place on this dollar. A lot of people assign a really negativevalue. The more negative value.. Imagine just for a moment that money had ears.Because on every bill there's a human being, there's a president of somebodyand they all have ears tucked under their schmancy hair. And if money hadears, if you were talking poorly about it, wouldn't want to come and visit? Itwouldn't want to come and play. And so, if you want to attract more money in yourlife, right now with the corona virus, if you want to be more successful in yourbusiness; if you want to have better ideas, if you want to stabilize yourprivate economy, if you want to make sure you've got money for your employees tochoose into like a different belief set about money. As a gift for every one ofyou here by the way watching this video, I'm putting a link below for you to geta free copy of my book Limitless. And in this book, I have decoded the top 250limiting beliefs that people have about money. And I documents their replacements.So, I've created for you out of having interviewed thousands of people theperfect mindset about what money is. That it's good, that produces possibility. Withmore money, you could do more good the world. How easily it flows to you.That's an energy stream they easily sit in. And all of those beliefs aredocumented in this book that you can have for free. Click that link. That's agift from me to you. I want you to have it. And when you get the book, read it butthe appendix in the end under the money section, I give you several straightpages of a belief system about money that will change the game. And if youcan change the way that you think about money, then you can attract more of it. So,I wrote this book Limitless for darker days. It is an explanation of why you andI are the way that we are. It explains how our belief system came about fromchildhood. And ultimately now as adults, we're just rehearsing a childhood'sbelief system. And it's literally about how you alter beliefs permanently tocreate what you want. My journey of becoming a multimillionaire,my journey of becoming successful in business, my journey of overcoming healthor weight issues. My journey of finding a deep for love with my wife, it's all inthis book explaining the there's a technique and a system in a way for youto literally alter belief system and manifest life that you want. So, this is abook. I always order a lot of extra quantities so that I can give it away topeople that are sincere truth seekers trying to figure out how to have abetter life. So, if you want a better financial life, if you want to feel morepositive, if you want to love more of your life, if you want to be a happierperson; it's all found here in this book. And please pick up a free copy in thelink below. I look forward to talking guys later. By the way, if you enjoyed today'svideo, go ahead and share it, like it, smash that like button. Subscribe. We gotvideos coming out nearly every single day designed to help you awaken thatfinancial genius and be your best and happiest self.